special order

March 6, 2011

One of the hardest parts of going gluten free 1.5 years ago was giving up the idea of ever going out to dinner and being “normal” again. Special menus, special requests, special visits from the chef, special trips my food had to take back to the kitchen for being made incorrectly — well, it doesn’t make me feel “special”. It makes me feel like a burden. It makes me feel picky. It makes me want to rip my hair out and tell everyone, “it’s okay — I just come out to eat for the experience” when in the back of my mind I know it’s because of the food.

And gosh darn it, don’t you dare put that bread on my table because I will give you an evil glare because I want it so bad (I joke here people — kind of).

I used to judge a restaurant based on how good their bread was. Going to a restaurant that didn’t serve bread before the entrees came was not an option in my book. I was all about the bread. How ironic I turned out gluten intolerant. Funny how the world works, right?

I grew up going out to dinner at least two times per week, and I am not ashamed to tell you that Olive Garden was top on my list. In fact, almost every week after piano lessons, my mom would take my brother and sister there for dinner. It wasn’t until I got older that I really began to realize what a great deal their soup, salads, and breadsticks were.

Really? If I come here for lunch, I only have to pay $5.95? Sign me up… for life! (at a fixed rate please)

You can imagine my dismay when I figured out I could not eat their beloved minestrone soup and garlicky breadsticks any longer. I think I mourned the longest over this rather than any other of my dietary changes. Before I was a vegetarian, there was a select few items on their menu I could eat. Now I’m down to a house salad and broccoli topped with marinara.

Mmmmm someone’s going to have to roll me outta there (insert sarcasm here).

So today — TODAY, I set out with a mission to create my most loved meal in the comfort of my own home wearing my velour track pants and ISU sweatshirt that has seen its last day.

Mission accomplished.

I would be lying if I told you I recreated this soup from the depths of my soul. One of my co-workers thought of me (yay!) when her and her husband made this mock Olive Garden minestrone soup one day last week. I came into work with a beautiful recipe sitting on my desk. I love it when people are nice. I also am nice, so consider this as me putting the recipe on your desk as well.

You’re welcome.

 
So there was soup — and there was also those breadsticks (I totally just typed breaststicks — ha!). Once again, no credit for the recipe here either. Sometimes a girl just wants to follow a recipe — kind of. I used
this recipe but made a few changes:

  • 1/2 sorghum flour & 1/2 GF all purpose flour
  • omitted the parmesan cheese
  • regular active dry yeast

I’m pretty sure I’m going to get a phone call from my mom in approximately 5 seconds demanding why I didn’t invite her over for dinner. Don’t worry mommasita — there’s leftovers. I’ll bring you some on Wednesday.

 
I’m feeling kind of special now.

No wise crack jokes about me being “special” either, got it?

Question: Have you ever had to “special order” off of a menu?

PS — Don’t forget to email me or comment below on questions you want to ask the Husband!

{ 67 comments… read them below or add one }

melissa (fitnessnyc) March 6, 2011 at 5:27 pm

Last year, I had to start restricting sodium, since I live in the city, I eat out a lot, so I am constantly feeling like I have to avoid so many of my favorite foods or beg for favors from the chef! I feel ya girl!

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Freya March 6, 2011 at 5:32 pm

I admire you for managing to have a gluten free lifestyle - I can’t even begin to imagine how tough that must be!
Well being vegan, most of my stuff is special in some way :p I think my aunt is the worst though - she’s a hardcore vegetarian who will not eat tomatoes or garlic! Kiiinda limits things :P

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cleaneatingchelsey March 6, 2011 at 5:37 pm

no tomatoes or garlic!? I can’t even imagine!

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Jess March 6, 2011 at 5:33 pm

I’ve never had to order off a special menu, but I have ;) I am probably a high maintenance order-er. Hehe :) Your GF take on Olive garden looks GREAT!!

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Emily @ One Sweet Vegan March 6, 2011 at 6:18 pm

I’ve definitely done my fair share of special ordering. Just curious-when you were younger, did you notice any negative effects from eating gluten?

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cleaneatingchelsey March 6, 2011 at 6:28 pm

Not at all. I seriously had a stomach of steel growing up and don’t remember ever having stomachaches. I did get a lot of migraine headaches though which is one thing that happens when I eat gluten.

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Lauren March 6, 2011 at 6:27 pm

I ALWAYS special order off the menu. I actually get offended if any restaurant has a problem with my requests and refuse to go anywhere that puts up a fight. Seriously, you are a restaurant. Your goal is to make food that makes people happy. That’s it!
Girl, I do love those breadsticks so these look like an awesome substitution. Way to go!

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Maryea {Happy Healthy Mama} March 6, 2011 at 6:30 pm

I often special order at restaurants. There are a lot of foods I don’t trust at restaurants, so I try to keep it simple.

This soup looks waaaay better than the OG version.

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Matt March 6, 2011 at 6:31 pm

I have a question.

Did you go gluten free by choice or do you have celiacs? I know some people that are technically not allergic to gluten, but they do it as a lifestyle choice.

Either way, I love the blog! My ex-g/f had celiacs and I actually really enjoyed the meals that we made.

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cleaneatingchelsey March 6, 2011 at 6:42 pm

I’ve never been tested for Celiac, but I am definitely gluten intolerant. If I eat it, I will have GI problems for days (!!!!), a migraine headache, joint stiffness, a rash on my legs, among a whole bunch of less desireable symptoms!

Thanks for stopping by Matt!

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Jenny March 6, 2011 at 6:43 pm

I can’t imagine not being able to eat bread, although it’d probably be somewhat beneficial for me not to be able to eat it. I’m addicted to anything bread:( Thanks for sharing, I like doing gluten-free whenever I can!

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Colleen @ The Lunchbox Diaries March 6, 2011 at 6:47 pm

That meal looks fabulous! That was so nice of your co-worker to think of you like that! I normally order things “specially” like, dressing on the side. Grilled, not breaded. Steamed, not sauteed. I feel like a burden, too. But I’m not going to go pay to eat something that’s going to make me feel sick afterwards!

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Katie March 6, 2011 at 6:59 pm

Wow this looks amazing!! I LOVED olive garden for their breadsticks and endless salads!! Glad you made your own yummy gluten free version!

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Hollie @ Lolzthatswim(andRun) March 6, 2011 at 7:03 pm

I’m prediabetic so I often have to find out how certain things are being made. Although-I must admit they are getting a lot better in restaurants about meeting the needs of people who eat differently.

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Kelsey March 6, 2011 at 7:03 pm

I have to special order everything off a menu. Being allergic to casein…I have to make sure nothing has butter, cheese, sour cream, or casein it (sometimes veggie burgers have casein it them, weird huh?) I feel your pain and your olive garden looks delicious! Even better than the real thing!

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Jenny March 6, 2011 at 7:06 pm

I recently have been noticing that my stomach isn’t tolerating foods the way it normally has. My GI doctor just said it was IBS and sent me on my way. I was thinking of cutting out gluten to see if my stomach was feeling better but I was wondering if there are any kinds of oats or cereals that u eat that are gluten free. I can’t even imagine having to give up oats :(

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cleaneatingchelsey March 6, 2011 at 7:29 pm

It makes me angry that they label everything as “IBS” and dont actually figure out what’s going on! Um of course my bowels are irritated - can we please figure out what’s making them that way? :)

I eat Bob’s Red Mill Gluten Free Oats - they’re the best!

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Meaghan March 7, 2011 at 8:42 am

Me too! My best friend’s doctor passed off her GI problems for years as IBS and wouldn’t even entertain the thought of it being anything else. It took her finally saying enough was enough, went to the emerg. one night when it was really bad so she could get tests and found out it was Crohns! She could have been on med’s a lot sooner and feeling a lot better if it wasn’t just labeled as IBS at the beginning.

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Kelsey @ Unmitigated Grub March 6, 2011 at 7:21 pm

This is amazing. Endless minestrone and breadsticks from Olive Garden are THE BEST! Good call on recreating.

I’m newly vegan and know how you feel about going out to eat. I hate that people need to accommodate my needs. It makes me appreciate restaurants that offer vegan options.

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katshealthcorner March 6, 2011 at 7:33 pm

Those bread sticks sound delicious! :D Did your husband try them? Did he like them?

xoxo
Kathleen

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Autumn @ Good Eats Girl March 6, 2011 at 7:38 pm

The soup looks AMAZING! I need the recipe!

It looks like it was a beautiful day for pictures outside!

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missymiller March 6, 2011 at 7:46 pm

I’m pretty sure Olive Grden Bread Sticks have crack in them…but I am so glad you found a better way! Did you slather them in olive oil and vegan butter? That would surely hit home.

But they look so good who needs them? PS- Carrabas Italian Grill do they have them near you? They have a special gluten free menu. Hoorah! Who knew that sometimes when you go out the “steamed veggies” are actually served with a seasoning containing gluten?
No fears. I am sure given the rise in gluten awareness the gluten-free menus will be more widely available.
But yes, It is about experience, avoiding chain restaurants and going to where the chefs love a challenge and a chance to do different and..heck…have a salad and then when you get home have your main course.

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fitnessnfoodiegirl March 6, 2011 at 7:56 pm

Those are my two favorites at Olive Garden as well! I am so glad you were able to re-create them for you to enjoy!!! They look delicious!
I also love the set up outside! It looks like it was a beautiful day!

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Jess@HealthyExposures March 6, 2011 at 8:05 pm

Breadsticks!!! They look amazing…and yes, I love the bread more than the dinner, too :P Believe it or not, I’ve only ever been to Olive Garden a max of twice. If there was one closer I’d probably take advantage of their breadsticks and salad more often, though :P

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Parita @ myinnershakti March 6, 2011 at 8:09 pm

Since I’ve been a vegetarian, I’ve had to ask about whether or not something is truly meat-free or not. I hope I’ve never been lied to!! :P

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Shanna, like Banana March 6, 2011 at 8:15 pm

YES! This actually played a big role in me choosing to eat meat again (after being veg for 14 years). I was sick of being “special” aka a pain in the arse!

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BrittFit March 6, 2011 at 8:22 pm

I only order special off the menu haha it’s just better that way ;)

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Cara Craves... March 6, 2011 at 8:29 pm

I love recipe recreations!
Your looks like perfection.

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Averie (LoveVeggiesAndYoga) March 6, 2011 at 8:38 pm

congrats on nailing the bread!

raw, vegan, GF, no added garlic/onion/added sodium…i am a walking special order. Thus, I dont go out much :)

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IHeartVegetables March 6, 2011 at 8:49 pm

Man, this looks even better than OG’s original! I can’t wait to try this!

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carlee March 6, 2011 at 9:22 pm

Tell me about it! I’m Gluten intolerant as well. Most times I’m okay excpet when I go to resturaunts. Its killeerrrr.

How were the GF breadsticks?

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cleaneatingchelsey March 7, 2011 at 6:04 am

They were good! Littler and more dense than the Olive Garden version, but that is to be expected with GF baked goods.

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Katy (The Singing Runner) March 6, 2011 at 9:34 pm

Looks FANTASTIC! Wow oh wow!

Honestly, I am SUPER nervous about eating when I go to Costa Rica next week. We are staying with host families and I don’t want to be a burden to them with my crazy diet restrictions! :/

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cleaneatingchelsey March 7, 2011 at 6:04 am

Yeah, I would be nervous too! I’m sure you’ll be fine though!

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Katie March 6, 2011 at 10:08 pm

Oh my god this is perfect!! Just the other day I was mourning the fact that I can’t go to The OG anymore, which is sad, because it was a SERIOUS staple in my life for years. And the soup will be made asap. You read my sad mind!

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Annette @ EnjoyYourHealthyLife March 6, 2011 at 10:28 pm

I think I would die if I had to go gluten free- that is amazing, woman :)

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allieatfood March 6, 2011 at 11:58 pm

Ohhh soup salad and breadsticks! I work at the OG so obviously this is something that I see in my sleep! But obviously your version looks so much more delicious and healthy. I don’t even like the breadsticks, too blah! I’ve always wanted to recreate the minestrone soup, I can’t wait to give it a whirl!

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Mary @ Delightful Bitefuls March 7, 2011 at 12:35 am

That meal looks delicious!

Great blog; happy I found you!

Mary xo
Delightful Bitefuls

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Amanda @ AmandaRunsNY March 7, 2011 at 6:07 am

I special order quite often. Most places are happy to do it, but I’ve gotten more than my share of funny looks too (mostly from my tablemates)

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Chelsea @ One Healthy Munchkin March 7, 2011 at 6:30 am

Girl I can totally relate! Having a nut allergy makes it SO hard to eat out sometimes. :( I can almost NEVER order off the dessert menu and there are some restaurants that I have to just avoid all together, such as Thai restaurants.

Making our own food is always the best solution though! I’m sure your minestrone and breadsticks are even better than Olive Garden’s! ;)

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Amanda March 7, 2011 at 6:59 am

Mmmmm, those breadsticks sound really good!! Have you tried the GF pasta at Olive Garden? It’s not on their regular menu, I think you have to ask for the “garden fare” menu to see it, but it’s basically just GF spaghetti noodles, so you can substitute them for any of the pasta dishes and just have them add the sauce of your choice, I’ve had them a couple of times and they were actually pretty good! But I do miss the garlicky buttery delicious bread :(

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cleaneatingchelsey March 7, 2011 at 7:53 am

I’ve asked for GF pasta at Olive Garden before and the ones I have gone to never have it!!

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movesnmunchies March 7, 2011 at 7:24 am

your meal is oh so gourmet!!! its definitely a challenge for me too with vegan options.. i usually customize something though to fit my needs!

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Danielle March 7, 2011 at 7:25 am

oh gosh I just recently went to olive garden and showed up to the restaraunt completely famished (not good when they serve unlimited amounts of bread)….so I pretty much ate close to 20 bread sticks before scarfing down an entree and splitting three desserts with a friend..the bad thing is when we got up to leave I was eyeing the couple of bread sticks that were still left in the basket!!!! they are so good and so addicting!

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cleaneatingchelsey March 7, 2011 at 7:53 am

haha I love this! :)

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Gabriela @ Une Vie Saine March 7, 2011 at 7:56 am

Oh I special order all the time haha. Even if you weren’t GF, it’s REALLY hard to find veg-friendly options that aren’t totally smothered in cheese. I’m okay with some, but I do not need half a block of cheddar to make up for the fact that I don’t eat meat. Some of the best meals I’ve eaten out have come from multiple sides!

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cleaneatingchelsey March 7, 2011 at 12:39 pm

I totally agree. It seems that all veg options when I go out to eat (ie: weddings, etc) are all pastas tat are heavy on the cheese. That’s not going to work for me. :)

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Leanne @ Healthful Pursuit March 7, 2011 at 9:26 am

It’s so great that you were able to make a replica of your favorite eat out meal! I do it ALL the time, even of my favorite gluten free products that I refuse to pay an outrageous amount for. This soup looks amazing!

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[email protected] March 7, 2011 at 9:31 am

That looks absolutely amazing….I am drooling. Yours look better than olive garden. I always have special orders at restaurants and Billy get’s embarrassed that I request so many random things. Hope you have an amazing day and we enjoyed your chocolate you sent us yesterday..thank you!!!

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Natalia - a side of simple March 7, 2011 at 9:33 am

Totally sympathize with you on the GF dining experience. Not the best…

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simplynutritiouskate March 7, 2011 at 9:35 am

Yum that looks like such a comforting meal, probably even better than olive garden. :)

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gracefulfitness March 7, 2011 at 10:48 am

Special order? Me? Hummm, ALWAYS!
You can’t imagine the look of dismay and confusion on the servers face when I ordered my meal “sin arroz” (no white rice) in Peru! But how could it be a meal without the rice?
The worst is when you make a special order and they get it wrong. :(

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Jen March 7, 2011 at 11:37 am

We are pretty positive my 8 year old has a gluten intolerance and just waiting for the ped’s appointment later this week to decide if we are going to get him tested for Celiac or not. *celiac disease/gluten intolerance runs in the family* I’m kind of nervous because the husband and i have decided that if he does have a gluten intolerance, we are all going gluten free.

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cleaneatingchelsey March 7, 2011 at 12:38 pm

Oh no! Keep me posted on what happens. I think that it would be so helpful for a child to have an entire family who goes GF if an intolerance was found out about. I can just imagine how many tears would be shed because “he got to have it and I couldn’t!”

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Sami March 7, 2011 at 12:35 pm

awh…i can’t imagine having to go gluten-free. it would be tough! it’s admirable that you have come up with so many ways to adjust your diet! one of my best friends has to eat gluten free, too. i always try to make sure i have good snacks on hand for her! enjoy life foods has been a godsend!

xo.

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Trisha March 7, 2011 at 12:50 pm

I love this post. Love, love love. Because I feel the exact same way. I am allergic to gluten, corn and soy…so going to a restaurant is almost impossible. So glad you found this yummy soup recipe! Sounds amazing :)

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vegansunshine March 7, 2011 at 2:03 pm

I always feel silly for asking so many questions. I do feel like a burden and I hate it sometimes, people can be so rude!

Whitney

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Jessica @ Dishin' About Nutrition March 7, 2011 at 4:14 pm

How did you discover you were allergic to gluten? I know a lot of people are and they just don’t know it. I have had digestive problems for as long as I can remember and I’m sure it has something to do with an allergy to food but I don’t know what it is (and I like food too much to go to a GI and figure it out haha) Anyways, I was curious how you figured it out….

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thefitacademic March 7, 2011 at 4:47 pm

Wow - really going all out! I’m sure your mom is proud : )

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Heather @ Get Healthy with Heather March 7, 2011 at 5:44 pm

I’m just plain picky which probably embarrasses my husband when I substitute a lot when we’re out. I just wanna be happy with what I order :)

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Katelyn March 7, 2011 at 6:04 pm

Giiirl I ALWAYS have to special order!! This is making my mouth water, it drives me crazy that no restaurant ever has gluten free breadsticks! You have made my night:)

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kbwood March 7, 2011 at 6:36 pm

CHELSEYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!
i have been keeping up with you altho i have been mia :) I cannot stay away from you too long obviously!!!!! I am the queen of special orders and im not even gluten free! LOVE YOU!

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cleaneatingchelsey March 7, 2011 at 7:06 pm

:) I’ve missed yoU!!!

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The Healthy Apple March 7, 2011 at 8:27 pm

I just came across your website and I love it. I’m gluten and dairy intolerant and absolutely love your posts and recipes. I am so happy to have found you and cannot wait to see your future posts. Have a great night and keep up the amazing gluten-free blogging!
xo
Amie

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Lauren March 7, 2011 at 11:35 pm

I used to be able to put away a serious amount of OG breadsticks. Okay, it wasn’t just the breadsticks that I was putting away. Such a cute idea to recreate a healthy/gluten-free/vegetarian version of an OG meal. I thought about remaking a healthy/veggie version of their gnocchi soup but it sounded labor intensive and I’m not all that sure my cooking skills are up to the test. One day, maybe.

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Jessica @ Dishin' About Nutrition March 8, 2011 at 7:36 am

I am very schedule oriented as well. I like the consistency and routine and I think it keeps me on a healthy path.

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eatinglikeahorse March 8, 2011 at 5:12 pm

The soup looks great… and gluten free breadsticks?? I think I love you :-)
I know exactly what you mean; I actually prefer my GF diet to the one I had before my coeliac diagnosis but always feel like the awkward one when I’m eating out. It’s just a bit irritating having to either go and talk to staff first or choose, and then choose again - and again!
The worst was back in September when I got to a restuarant with a group of friends and they said they couldn’t guarantee anything was safe so I had to have a bowl of olives for dinner. I like olives but still… :-)

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