When I was younger and my dad would come home from work, I never understood why he snapped so easily at us. I never understood how he could not see his children all day, come home, and be crabby. Heaven forbid, we WERE the world’s most perfect children – he should have celebrated our existence every chance he got. Instead, he came home from a long day of teaching, tired and impatient.
I understand now.
I understand that my dad was patient all. day. long. with students. Students who were bright, students who needed more help than others, students who decided today was the day they would be very obnoxious just to see if he would break down and lose himself in a fit of rage. Oh no, you see – you can’t do that in the classroom. No matter what occurs, you must stay calm. You must act, not react when a situation arises.
So now when I get home after a long day of work, the last thing I want to do is be patient. The last thing I want to do is to do one. more. thing. You see – I have been patient all. day. long. with. students. Students who are bright, students who need more help than others, students who decided today was the day they would be very obnoxious just to see if I would break down and lose myself in a fit of rage. Lucky for them, I’m calm as a cucumber.
In that classroom, that is. At home? It’s not my strongest attribute. In fact, last night I exclaimed to the Husband very loudly that the last thing I wanted to be doing at that exact moment was to be cooking his dinner.
I’m working on getting super powers to magically reverse the words that come out of my mouth.
You can only imagine the gleeful sounds that came out of my mouth when the Husband agreed to make me dinner tonight for the very first time as a married couple.
He totally didn’t make that.
I did. Just as luck would have it, he would wake up with whatever sickness plagued me for the last two weeks. Of course I feel horrible. Of course I feel like it’s my fault. Of course I tried to make it up to him by making him a rockin’ tomato soup because it’s his favorite.
Creamy Tomato Soup (serves 3-4)
- 1-2 tbsp. olive oil
- 1/2 onion, diced
- 4 cloves garlic, minced
- 28 oz. can whole tomatoes
- 3 cups vegetable broth
- 1/2 cup almond milk
- salt, pepper, basil, and garlic to taste
Directions: Start by mincing your garlic and dicing your onion. Sauté over medium high heat with 1-2 tbsp. of olive oil in a large Dutch oven. Stir frequently as you do not want the garlic or onion to burn. Continue to cook until translucent (~5 minutes).
Once onion and garlic is tender, pour the entire contents of the canned tomatoes into the Dutch oven. Stir. Then, pour your vegetable broth into the tomatoes and stir. Cook on medium heat for 5-10 minutes.
Transfer your soup to a blender (or you can use an immersion blender – it didn’t work that well for me though!) and puree until smooth (5-10 seconds). Transfer back to the Dutch oven and continue to simmer for 15-20 more minutes. Spice to taste and stir in your almond (or soy… or any milk, actually!) before serving.
I served mine atop a handful of spinach. It gave a great texture to the soup!
Of course I didn’t actually want to cook dinner today. However, I took one for the team. I held my tongue because, actually, I was inspired to cook this soup and was excited to eat it.
Too bad the Husband slept through dinner.
And I’m okay with this – because through this experience, I have learned that when I’m not patient, it comes back and kicks me right in the behind.
Question: What’s your favorite soup?














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I totally feel you on this. I teach not only one class of students, but the whoooole school during the course of a week. Needless to say, my patience is nonexistent when I get home. My poor hubby. My poor cats.
…I think this tomato soup will make everything all better.
If you get those super powers to magically reverse the words that come out of your mouth–please share!
And also, I absolutely respect that you are a teacher. Such a difficult job that calls for a special person.
I sure will!
I know exactly what you are talking about! I’m a teacher as well, and I often bring my frustrations/stressors home with me. My husband can easily leave work at work, but I find it much more difficult!
Awwww, poor hubby. Mine is feeling better today thank goodness. I know this sounds bad but is it just me or do men seem to over exaggerate when they get sick? It honestly seems like death has come over my guy whenever he gets sick.
I totally agree – I think they like to be “mothered”.
Tomato is my favorite, too!
My favorite soup is Manhatten clam chowder…..but that’s not why I’m writing on your blog. I’m writing to tell you that you are a miracle worker. I tried for years to get my son, YOUR HUSBAND, to eat healthy and he wouldn’t. He called my healthy food “Mom food”. As in “there’s nothing good to eat in the refridgerator, only mom food.” I’m so proud that you accomplished what I couldn’t. Do you know last week, he called me from Jewel to tell me hummes was on sale? I applaud you and all your doing. So proud to be…………..Your Mother-in-law:)
looks so divinely delicious! And when you find those super powers to withhold your words, can you pass it along to me?
The sales people I work for often act like children. Patience gets tested. And I often do get phonecalls on the way home that will get my response “I do not feel like talking, I’ll call you tomorrow”. It’s necessary.
Tomato soup is 100% my favorite!! I don’t branch out a whole lot with soup- all I ever want is tomato
I’ve never thought to add spinach, but I usually add fresh basil.
I’m the same way when I get home, even though I’m not a teacher. Give me just 5-10 minutes to get situated then you can get all up in my face.
My favorite soup is super random. It involves: onions, garlic, carrots, celery (if we have it), and LOTS of beans (navy, black, kidney, etc…whatever ones I have in the cupboard). I cook 4-5 cups of beans (I try to mix a couple: navy and black, black and kidney, etc). I then take 3/4 of the beans and puree them. I add both the rest of the whole beans, the pureed beans, and 2 cups of water. Add whatever spices you like. We like things SPICY, so I usually add S&P, paprika, chili powder, and a bit of curry powder. Let simmer for 15 minutes and try not to eat it all in one sitting.
That sounds awesome – I’m sure the pureed beans make it really thick and creamy! Yum!
I love love love white bean and kale soup.. I’ve had great success with Oh she glows, i also love lentil soup! Cant go wrong with awesome vegan protein!
Wow! This looks DELICIOUS!!!
My favorite type of soup is a chunky vegetable!
MMM i love tomato soup! this is yummy! stupid freaking commenting system i had on my blog deleted your last comment!
and my reply to you which was that i love you too much to not forgive you heeheh
hahahaha yummy!
MEH hahah
Sick significant others bring out the caretaker in everyone, don’t they? I love love love tomato soup. I wonder why I haven’t made it in so long.
I’m not a big tomato soup fan, but your version looks super tasty!
I’m obsessed w/creamy tomato soup-brings me back to my dad’s EVERYDAY lunch of “mater soup and grilled cheese”-your version i’d have to say tops good ol’ campbells!
Oh, I have the hardest time being “chipper” right after work! I have to have a little quiet time before I can be good and sociable. I LOVE potato soups! The best kind is when it’s blended into a nice bowl of creamy goodness!
Potato soups are great too – I love them!
That soup sounds amazing!
I’m the same way after work. My boyfriend asks me a simple question and I flip out because “I babysit grown men all day long. I can’t make decisions for you too!” Poor guy.
Oh my gosh Leah! This is so funny!
I love putting fresh spinach in my soup, I love when it gets wilty from the heat!
There is nothing in the world better than tomato soup. Unless it has grilled cheese to go with it. That’s better.
True story!
I love tomato soup, but it’s the kind of soup I have to be in the mood for.
And a few minutes of ‘me’ time is essential after work. I work with 3-6 year olds, so I know what you mean about patience running out!
This soup is exactly what I wanted to make today but I didn’t have a recipe! I can’t wait to try it out!
Well, I’m happy I could help you out!
You didn’t want to, but did it anyway and lived to blog about it… what a wonderful wife you are and devoted blogger! I totally know what you mean about not feeling like being patient or cooking when you get off work, I feel that way quite often and still dont see how my mom did it all sometimes. I really admire people who still actually take the time to cook for their family after a long day at work, says a lot!
I agree! If I had to work when we have kids, boy oh boy, I don’t know what I would be feeding them!
I’ve always been really impatient! My favorite soup is probably a good old fashioned chicken noodle – with homemade noodles! Soooo good! Especially with some crusty bread! Yum!
This looks like such a better alternative to that canned Campbell soup! Now I’m totally craving a bowl of this soup with a grilled cheese!
My favourite soup is any one with lots of beans and greens in it!
This seriously sounds AWESOME. I LOVE tomato soup but it’s so hard to find a good creamy vegan version. Need to make this stat!!
there really is nothing like a perfect tomato soup! gosh… my favorite soup… probably pea or leek soup!– it totally changes like every month though
That looks delicious, and great that you can use a normal blender, since I don’t have an immersion one! And vegan too! Woo!
My favourite soup at the mo is lentil. Or leek and potato…mmm… I LOVE SOUP.
Leek and potato is awesome!
That looks so good and so quick!
Please tell me you put nooch on top of yours. (0:
Of COURSE I did!
That soup looks TO DIE FOR!! Come cook for me girl!! THANK YOU FOR POSTING ABOUT PATIENCE!! I have been feeling like a bad wife when I come home and easily get annoyed….it’s because I have been dealing with annoying kids all day and trying to be patient!! Hope you have a great day and it is almost the weekend!
I’m glad I’m not the only one – I always feels like such a brat!
I totally get the snapping. I need to have my “me” time for a good hour when I get home before I’m ready to even chat with my hubby. I’m so “on” during the work day that I need time to decompress.
What a healthy version of this soup! I’ve never seen a recipe that doesn’t call for massive amounts of butter and cream
I LOVE the pics on this post! Looks like you’re having a blast Rebel-ing!
Now for a teaching question- when do schools start taking applications for hiring new teachers? I’m trying to become a full-time elementary teacher this upcoming fall and would love some advice!
I would start applying around February or March. Most schools have an online application form as well. What’s nice about Illinois is you can sign up in a database for them to send you updates when jobs become available at the districts you have chosen. APPLY EVERYWHERE!
As a mom to a 3rd grader, kindergartner and a toddler (who will one day lead his teachers to an early retirement…) I think you and all teachers are AMAZING!!!! I honestly don’t know how you do it, but thank heavens that you do!
Jen
Potato bacon! But only if it’s in a bread bowl.
I need that super power too! I cringe when I think of the things that come out of my mouth sometimes.
Tomato soup is my favorite!! Yours looks delicious. I remember coming home super crabby some days when I was teaching. It is SUCH a tough job!
That soup looks SO SO SO good right now. Do you deliver? I’ll tip really well…promise.
I’ll deliver if you pay for the travel arrangements!
How delish does your tomato soup look! I definitely need to make some homemade!
xo
I love love love tomato soup. And this recipe actually looks like I could make it without messing it up
I can’t wait to try it! Yum!
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I just made this right now. LOVE IT SO YUM!
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